Call Your Deadbeat Dad
Running across the Burnside Street Bridge in Portland last week, I came upon this graffiti message spray-painted in purple, letters a foot high, on the sidewalk bordering the vast Willamette River:
CALL YOUR DEADBEAT DAD. HE STILL LOVES YOU.
It was Father’s Day weekend. My mind started whirling. Did a specific dad write it to a long-lost child? Or was it more universal? A manifesto of sorts for all neglectful kids who haven’t stayed in touch with their dads? And did the suggestion tug hard enough to result in any action?
Couldn’t say. All I knew is this was Portland and the public call to action fit this city perfectly.
Also on the waterfront, scores of names of dead service men and women who died in Iraq were scrawled in chalk. “The Names Project,” said the message chalked on the sidewalk at the start of the long list.
Portlanders seem to live their lives out loud — at least many of those who reside in and around the city limits. I saw two anti-war protests on city sidewalks while there, and people gathering petition signatures downtown for an open space initiative, membership in Greenpeace and lord knows what else. I’ve visited there at least a half-dozen times in 10 years, usually for business, so I seldom get out to the suburbs. I’m pretty sure the Portland suburbs are like anywhere else, though — a gone-to-shit wasteland of chain restaurants and car lots. So I choose to stay in my little comfy urban bubble and it serves me just fine.
A group of City Weekly staff members attended the Association of Alternative Newspapers there. We worked during the day but played hard at night. The second night in, I’d had enough of crowds and loudmouths bragging on their newspapers, so I lit off on my own to Northwest Portland, AKA the Alphabet District. I walked from downtown for about 1 1/2 miles until I ran into a series of great bars, sidewalk cafes, coffee houses and nightlife like I never see in Salt Lake City. The host at the little Italian place where I chose to eat and sip Oregon pinot noir gave me the history of the district: a one-time working class area populated by longshoremen and their families. “It’s got the distinction of being the most densely populated neighborhood between San Francisco and Seattle,” he said, obviously proud of that little tidbit.
It’s easy to dismiss downtown Salt Lake as a decaying, even dead place because of its prehistoric liquor laws and clunky approach to nightlife. But it’s more than that. We cling to a culture here that a thriving nightlife is a little too much, a bit too excessive, showy and inappropriate. You see this even among those restaurant and club owners who are trying here: With the exception of the bigger, successful private clubs, too many bars are dark and dank, buried in basements with little or no light. Dirty.
It’s like going there makes you feel criminal, and I can’t believe city leaders want to put that message across.
And then there are the politics of Portland. I always get the distinct sensation when visiting there that speaking out is a public duty. People have opinions and they don’t shrink at sharing them. It’s a stark contrast to my hometown here, where so many people back into a position, or feign politeness or silence at the risk of offending or alienating someone else.
And of course, I do love the green and the clean air. We live in a high desert here in Salt Lake and I love that for its own exceptional qualities. But clean air? Now that is our challenge. I feel certain the next 10 years and the way we go about working on air quality will make or break Salt Lake as a livable and enticing city. I hope we haven’t started too late.
June 19th, 2007 at 4:39 pm
Be sure and visit the Hotel Benson..one of the West`s Grand Dame hotels, like the Brown Palace in Denver or what was the Hotel Utah ( now the J.Smith memorial or some such..with a 9 ft. statue of same in the lobby ). The Benson`s London Grill is excellent with a great wine list.
Cheers
June 20th, 2007 at 7:54 am
Holly,
It’s fun to think of you exploring the city. It IS an opintionated place, liberal, for the most part. It has had a steady population of teen runaways over the years but far fewer homeless than say, Seattle and a reputation as champions of gays and the environment. I agree that Utah has it’s own beauty… it’s an “apples and oranges” comparison. I’ve been impressed with the efforts Salt Lake is making to “go green.”
Have to visited Powell’s bookstore at 1005 W Burnside? It’s a one of a kind experience. As to the suburbs….of course you’re right about the chain restaurants and car lots but the older sections of some of the outlying areas are still intact and charming.
June 20th, 2007 at 5:03 pm
Love Portland, except for the rain. Wish more could be done to have SLC have some of the same feel and less “chain” restaurants - well, at least southern SL county where I am.
Go to Bridgeport Brewing - they have AWESOME pizza and wonderful beer - and root beer.
July 13th, 2007 at 11:20 pm
I was in Portland the same weekend. However, when I saw it, the Burnside Bridge was closed to all traffic, including pedestrians and runners, due to construction. How did you run across it?